Building Resilience Masterclass

In this 2-hour masterclass, you'll learn the underpinnings of WHY you might struggle with adversity, and how to truly build a mindset supporting resilience so that when life hits the fan (which it inevitably will for everyone!), then you have the tools in place to deal with struggles and adversity leading to better possible outcomes.

Building resilience isn't about struggle, it's about not letting the struggle impact you, and how you want to live.
 This masterclass teaches you how to deal with it using practical psychological techniques, so you can manage difficulties without letting them conquer you. 

What's included?

The Building Resilience Masterclass

Our 2-part video series dives deep into developing your resilience and teaches you how to support yourself through the ups and downs of life.

Mastering Mindset Slide Deck

A copy of our Mastering Mindset slide deck that you can keep in your back pocket for quick reference.

Self-Awareness & Skill-Building Support Tools

Simple tools and psychological techniques for bringing you back to building resilience and supporting yourself.

Tame Adversity & Build Resilience

Remember that old adage, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade"??"  Building resilience is more than just making lemonade from lemons. It's about shifting your perspective, getting the proper support, being vulnerable enough, and willing enough to allow yourself to be supported, and which requires all the necessary steps to support yourself as well - even if the first step is asking for help. 

Often resilience is a fancy word for the "process" that helps you in overcoming hardship. 


Life is full of adversity. Life will have ups & downs. That's a given.  However, most people don't know how to shift their perspective out of negative thinking patterns which include self-defeatist attitudes, a pessimistic mindset, or a "why me?" belief system, which unfortunately brings about victim mentality, leading to more struggles, not less.

In this 2-hour masterclass, you'll learn the underpinnings of why you might struggle with adversity, and how to truly build a mindset supporting resilience so that when life hits the fan (which it inevitably will for everyone!), then you have the tools in place to deal with struggles and adversity leading to better possible outcomes.

Becoming Resilient is a Skill You Can Learn

We will be exploring deep into many topics but here are some key areas to improve your resilience development: 
  • What is resilience and why is it needed on a weight loss journey?
  • Why do people struggle with victim mentality or defeatist thinking?
  • Understanding adversity, reactions to adversity and the origins which cause more struggles - not less!
  • Understanding the trauma response and how this impacts resilience as a whole, beyond weight management.
  • Create a mindset shift around struggle and resilience so that you can be more successful on your weight loss journey.
  • Get practical tools that you can implement shifting you out of negative self-defeating patterns.
  • Practice self-awareness, and new behaviors to support yourself best (which is the core of being resilient) when adversity and life issues create "struggle" in your life. 

Becoming More Resilient Will Positively Impact Your Entire Life

Adversity is a part of life. Struggle is a part of life. It's time you practice not giving up on you.

All those old patterns are conditioned, and it's time you let them go so when life happens, you can continue on your journey adapting and responding with greater resilience!!


Often so many people struggle with "life events" that are often outside of their control, leading them to "giving up" and then feeling they have "failed" themselves.

What if this is embedded in your mindset?

It's not uncommon for people to focus on fears, the pain and unintentionally create suffering on this journey.  It doesn't need to be this way!!

This workshop/masterclass helps to pave the way for developing resilience using psychological strategies and personalized insight - allowing you to pave the pathway for the support you need to strengthen the areas you need to work on most.


You are your own healer,
and through this workshop, you'll recognize how attachment  to adversity and negative thinking patterns can be due to the trauma response and past emotional wounding, a negative cyclical mindset, and potentially mental health struggles (depression, anxiety, ADHD, etc.).You'll learn how to shift your mindset so you can put an end to old patterns, release the "comfort" of adversity, old stories, heal the wounds,  giving you new tools to achieve greater peace and joy to live this journey fully, maintenance and beyond.  

Meet your Instructor & Coach

Hi! I'm Dr. Kristin Lloyd.

Dr. Kristin Lloyd, PhD, LPC is a certified transformational mindset mentor, coach, psychotherapist, energy healer and Reiki master guiding individuals to embrace healthy habits, better relationships, and fuller richer lives after weight loss surgery.

The struggles with weight loss surgery are real.

Having been over 400lbs and having bariatric surgery myself, I understand the struggles with food, having to build new coping mechanisms, and the emotional challenges that arise.

Student Success Stories

I am 3 years post VSG. I was having some regain. I'd allowed old habits and patterns to return and feared I was losing control. I am now working on losing the regain utilizing the tools the program has taught me. This program is not a diet or quick fix. At first it is a little overwhelming - so much information and resources! But Dr Kristin and the coaches are there to guide you. I was able to answer why I overeat/binge eat, to recognize the emotions and face them. With workshops to practice the skills learned I now have plans and exercises in place.  The support provided is outstanding, from the coaches and Dr Kristin, to your fellow members. It is a safe space to express and explore your feelings and emotions.This program is worth every penny. There are so many resources, so much support, so much self discovery. As the layers peel back, the coaching sessions are there for you to verbalize what you're discovering and get feedback. Dr Kristin is particularly skilled at reaching in and pulling out the truth in all the BS. If you're looking for a program that will help you discover the emotions behind your eating, are willing to do the hard work and learn tools to help you along the way this is the program you've been looking for! The food noise is much quieter and visits less often. When it does come I feel empowered and able to handle what comes along.

- Gail O.

I joined the Bariatric Mindset Group Coaching Program after 40lbs of regain. When I signed up I had no idea what to expect. I took a while to get involved but when I did the changes it made in my life have been unbelievable. The support calls, deep dives, hot seat calls and facebook group have provided the breakthrough I was looking for. I got more from the participation in the Bariatric Mindset Coaching Program in 6 months than years of local support groups and various other Bariatric Support. I finally found my tribe! Thank you Kristin and Team for proving a place for us and the tools we need to succeed. I can't wait to sign up next session!

- Joy W.

When I joined the BMS Group Program, I didn’t realize how stuck I was in a victim mindset and learned helplessness. Fast forward 6 months, and instead of looking at resolutions at the beginning of this year, I decided to reflect on all my notes I had taken from the Hot Seats, Deep Dives and modules. As a result of this, I came to realize how much of a shift in perspective I had experienced. Being a part of this program has helped me be more committed and consistent. I have learned to use the wisdom of my body to focus on how well I feel. I am more flexible and I more easily recognize my strengths, advocating for my body. Due to regain over the past 19 years after having gone through an inordinate amount of challenges and tragedy,  I am learning to release the suffering and moving towards healing. I am also practicing self-compassion and owing my choices instead of punishing myself.  My body is losing weight in its own time as I follow my plan, and I feel good about that.

- Suzanne C.

“To say this group has helped me would be an understatement.” 

To say this group has helped me would be an understatement. It’s is so reassuring to know other people understand what you’re going through and to have people to turn to that will listen. When the group program started I was really struggling with the mindset piece of bariatric surgery but now I feel stronger and more confident in my journey. I can say 100% that I wouldn’t be where I am without the support this group program has given me!

- Beth Detter

I knew I needed some help, but I did not know what it was. I was reading Dr. Kristin's book, Bariatric Mindset Success, and I researched Kristin and discovered the Bariatric Mindset Group Coaching Program. I jumped in not knowing what to expect, and I found something so much more than I could have ever imagined.I found a group of supportive women who understand what I was going through and are going through it with me! We celebrate each other's success and support each other through the struggles. I found lifelong friends that I never would have found had I not joined this group, I found an amazing coach who understood me and my journey because she went through it herself. She approaches her coaching through compassion and understanding, which I had never experienced prior to joining the group.Most of all I learned that it was not all about food and what I ate, but how I thought about myself and how that needed to shift. If you are thinking about it, and are ready to do the work. I HIGHLY recommend joining this group. Invest in yourself, you're worth it!

- Mannie

The Bariatric Mindset Group Program is a fantastic resource to have as both a pre and post-op bariatric patient. Kristin is amazing. Working with her is more like talking to a friend rather than working with a coach. The people that I have met in this group are pretty amazing as well. I feel totally comfortable sharing my feelings and emotions with them.It very much feels like a no-judgment zone!! Take advantage of this group, you WILL NOT REGRET IT!!!!!!!

- Marti Bea

A thousand times... yes! This membership has helped me beyond words. I used to constantly fight with myself regarding motivation and getting started. Listening to the mini-trainings and attending the support groups are exactly what I need to create ease in my life. When I feel stuck, I just go in and listen to 1-2 things, and within twenty minutes, I'm in a whole new frame of mind.

- Joy M

Get back on track, and stay on track.

I know what it feels like to feel totally out of control.  There comes a time when you realize that knowing and doing are two different things.  You may know exactly what to do, and at the same time, you know that you are not doing it.  This is the place to get back on track, and stay on track.